A permanent solution to constant struggles:
Do you ever find yourself getting along with misery? You know you are doomed, but you don’t care. You don’t know what you are saying, why you are saying, and to whom you are speaking.
You also realize that people aren’t really excited to be around you anymore and you try your best to overlook…but you can’t. Well, the problem is within you and we are here to take care of that. Commit yourself to the words below, and see the difference!
You need to recharge, just like your phone:
Everyone needs a soft corner inside their head where they can stretch their roomy happiness to infinity levels. It’s different for everyone; introverts prefer to lock themselves up in their rooms and submerge themselves into novels and music or they can probably opt for a long walk whereas extroverts want to indulge themselves into public discussions, and being around people. Know what floats your boat and recharge your precious self!
- Your heart is important, and so is your brain:
- ‘When life gives you lemons, make a lemonade‘. It is not just a quote; it can be a reality as well. All you have to do is know your brain well.
- The lower part of the brain, ‘ reactive brain ‘ is mostly responsible for involuntary actions so you can’t really do anything about it.
- The upper part of our brain, ‘ thinking brain ‘ is where we can change our game of life. It is in our control, and with practice, we can actually rewire our brain to make better decisions.
Communication is an art, be an artist:
When facing a large audience, try your best to REFRAIN from the following points:
- Carelessness: Acting care free won’t really help you. Keep your tone professional!
- Complication: If you know how to simplify, you can really be the boss.
- Confusion: You choose to illustrate your thoughts when you are still not beyond the thinking process? Not a smart move, dude.
- Inconsistency: Have consistency. Your level of tone should be the same as everyone.
- Callousness: Being selfish won’t really get you anywhere. Respect the time people are investing in you.
- Overconfidence: We know you are a know it all but here is a tip: keep it to yourself!
Keep your priorities straight:
There are things you would gladly compromise your sleep for and things not worth your alarm ring. The beauty here lies in the correct identification towards what is rightly vital for you which in return would shape your approaches towards your goals of life. A tip here is being rational while sorting!
Sit back, but only to stand later:
Leading comes later, thinking comes first. Before taking a stand, take a step behind and work on the following points:
- Know your purpose.
- Question and listen.
- Do not hesitate to experiment.
- Reflect and initiate.
- Think out of the box.
- Have a slow meaningful pace.
- Be authentic.
An overview:
To conclude, you can unleash the perfect version of yourself if you take your heart and brain wherever you go.
By practicing to be self-disciplined and organized, strong relationships are soon on their way for you. Keep your passion of life burning, and learn to play with the fumes!